A Woman’s Greatest Mistake

This piece is largely "a note to self". If you are male, kindly substitute gender and references as appropriate. I stumbled on the writer online. Her words resonated on many levels. I have tried to leave the manuscript as close to the original as possible. Alas, my arrogance bade me to perform rudimentary editing. There … Continue reading A Woman’s Greatest Mistake

How To Help Your Erection

I have always thought the worst of aphrodisiacs. Did not even believe they worked. I now believe. Trust me, they work. I staunchly refuse to go into any details of my new - found certainty. Well, maybe someday soon. Part of that journey exposed me to the fact that most men are consistently ingesting these … Continue reading How To Help Your Erection

The Book Of Denial (Chapter 4)

Here we sit, oars in hand Each paddling in their direction I am stronger so we go my way When I wane we go yours Consequently we end still. So here we sit; nothing gained... Here we lay, blanket o'er us Back to back, pillow between It is cold, we are cold You roll your … Continue reading The Book Of Denial (Chapter 4)

The Birth Control Pill Is Killing Women, But No One’s Warning Them Of The Risk

"May 7, 2015 (STOPP.org) -- The young newlywed put herself at risk for collapse, stroke, heart attack, and death every day when she popped her birth control pill. Tragically, she had no idea there was any danger. Even medical personnel thought her symptoms were no big deal, and on more than one occasion chalked her symptoms up … Continue reading The Birth Control Pill Is Killing Women, But No One’s Warning Them Of The Risk

10(-ish) Things 10 Women Wish Men Knew About Sex

Okay! First off, I confess that I am way out of my depth on this one. For once though, I got the feeling that there were real feelings communicated to me. Leads me to believe that men have fallen short of several 'glories' severally. The blatant honesty I got off my polls led me to … Continue reading 10(-ish) Things 10 Women Wish Men Knew About Sex

10 Things Men Wish Women Knew About Sex

I have always been committed to traumatising the prudes amongst us. I belong to a school of thought that ties a lot to the beautiful art (and act) of sex. We think it is the answer to a lot of things. Idiots! Well, whilst conducting routine research, I stumbled upon this post. "Why hoard these … Continue reading 10 Things Men Wish Women Knew About Sex

Kids Say (And Do) The Darndest Things

We were going to marry. She had a kid. He was eighteen months old at the time. Now, I don't mean to discriminate, but back then single moms were a no-no. Ordinarily there was no way my family would ever accept her. I could see it in their eyes when they first met her, the … Continue reading Kids Say (And Do) The Darndest Things

Jailbait

I could sense her. Her eyes on my back. All over my body. I couldn't see her, but I knew someone was very interested in me. I'm forty. Married. And in the UK vacationing. Alone. And yes, I was wearing my wedding band. She was beside me before I could turn. I turned just as … Continue reading Jailbait

Signs That He Is Falling Out Of Love With You

Insidious series of happenstance this one. You scarcely see it coming. I doubt if even he saw it coming. It is often the case that he has fallen out of love with you, but still loves you. He is no longer in love with you, but loves you still. No zing, no zest, nothing special, … Continue reading Signs That He Is Falling Out Of Love With You