Our (Significant) Other
He is now one with The Fear He is suddenly familiar with The Grief He finally feels The Uncertainty He now understands The Pain, The Turmoil. If you ever kiss…
Husband and wife
A Woman’s Greatest Mistake
This piece is largely "a note to self". If you are male, kindly substitute gender and references as appropriate. I stumbled on the writer online. Her words resonated on many…
How To Help Your Erection
I have always thought the worst of aphrodisiacs. Did not even believe they worked. I now believe. Trust me, they work. I staunchly refuse to go into any details of…
The Book Of Denial (Chapter 4)
Here we sit, oars in hand Each paddling in their direction I am stronger so we go my way When I wane we go yours Consequently we end still. So…
The Birth Control Pill Is Killing Women, But No One’s Warning Them Of The Risk
"May 7, 2015 (STOPP.org) -- The young newlywed put herself at risk for collapse, stroke, heart attack, and death every day when she popped her birth control pill. Tragically, she had no…
10(-ish) Things 10 Women Wish Men Knew About Sex
Okay! First off, I confess that I am way out of my depth on this one. For once though, I got the feeling that there were real feelings communicated to…
10 Things Men Wish Women Knew About Sex
I have always been committed to traumatising the prudes amongst us. I belong to a school of thought that ties a lot to the beautiful art (and act) of sex.…
Kids Say (And Do) The Darndest Things
We were going to marry. She had a kid. He was eighteen months old at the time. Now, I don't mean to discriminate, but back then single moms were a…
Jailbait
I could sense her. Her eyes on my back. All over my body. I couldn't see her, but I knew someone was very interested in me. I'm forty. Married. And…
Signs That He Is Falling Out Of Love With You
Insidious series of happenstance this one. You scarcely see it coming. I doubt if even he saw it coming. It is often the case that he has fallen out of…
Me ‘And’ You
If you are close friends with my enemy Can you truly be my friend? If you lie to me And I do not trust you Surely this signals an end?…
How To Keep Him Interested
Had an interesting call the other day. And like I promised you ma'am, here are tips on how to keep us men interested. Hold your horses though, is the man…
ATTN: Valentine Alert For All Men!
Culled from: The Business Insider Women, apparently, don't want chocolates or flowers for Valentine's Day. According to Birkbeck University and Harley Street clinics in London, it's a romantic meal for…
eternaldanceoflove
Let there be trust Let there be communication Let there be; love... She was proud She was arrogant She was insecure He was rebellious He was angry He was stubborn…
How To Keep Your Man
It is quite easy to get a man. How to keep him though? A challenge for most women. What to do? How to do it? When to do it? Where…